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A Service of Remembrance for the Life of Tom Frazier

April 9, 2022

March 7, 1938—April 2, 2022

April 9, 2022    Rev. Kent Gilbert, Pastor

Union Church 

Tom asked that we gather in the manner of Friends with both silence and speech to “be the church in community,” and then to be the church in fellowship. Any who wish to speak may offer their thoughts and prayers, joys and sorrows. The camera in the center of the room allows distant family and friends to see each speaker and the larger gathering. If you prefer not to be videoed, please see the pastor who will show you a “video-free” zone. 

Gathering Music

Welcome     Rev. Kent Gilbert

Silence  

Ringing the Peace Bell

Song Imagine John Lennon

Silence

Reading 1 Corinthians 13

If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. 

When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.  

Reflections and  Remembrances

Silence

Reading Appalachian Morning Tom Frazier

Ringing the Peace Bell

Music  

Prayers of Rest and Release    

Benediction    

Food and Fellowship  

Poems from Tom’s book, “Come Sit a Spell”

Appalachian Morning

Gladsome hearts listen to the silence as

tortoise moves slowly on paved drive,

unconscious of any danger

yet secure within its shell,

while birds frolic in early morn chatter

all for the better in this Appalachian valley

awaiting a new day, lying

mysteriously in foggy hollows.

Gladsome hearts listen to the silence as

morning awakens slowly this November day

with a slight damp chill as

souls anticipate the warm sun.

Chickadee sings, Sweet-sweet

while doves pair and coo in silence,

a non-anxious presence for an embracing couple

joyfully watching creation in the making.

Gladsome hearts listen to the silence

far from commuter trains and airplanes

replaces with donkey’s braying

while horses nibble on green pasture

far from Chicago’s rush,

more like a brush of an angel’s wing

in the whisper of this morning

the making of a new day.

Acceptance

Earth is warmed gentle and quietly,

as sun slowly breaks through the fog.

From the night, rest is broken,

not with a shout but as a whisper,

moving the soul into a new day.

Hold the moment,

that it might speak in silence,

as lovers gazing into the eyes of each other,

who need not speak,

knowing it would make for thunder.

Sit quietly and move slowly,

as friends around a warm stove .

Expecting nothing, anticipating everything,

reaping from the experience

of the creative forces moving among us.

Earth is cooling with smooth color

as sun quietly spreads across horizon.

To end the day another way,

only that we might have our say,

is to miss the message of the day.

Home

Where families embrace

love abides and thrives

innocence and solitude shows itself sadly

community gathers

and warmly scatters,

leaving the homeless, homeless

single tears in a lake of gladness.

Home, yet not at home,

a part of, yet set apart.

Sweetness destroys the soul

leaving the tartness of life

that makes us sore.

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